Comments on: Friendships & Boundaries – Do I Have to Sit Back and Watch an Inheritance Ruin a Marriage? http://www.climbingout.net/2009/07/friendships-boundaries-do-i-have-to-sit-back-and-watch-an-inheritance-ruin-a-marriage/ One Family's Adventure in Becoming Debt-free Sat, 22 Oct 2011 04:44:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Sandi http://www.climbingout.net/2009/07/friendships-boundaries-do-i-have-to-sit-back-and-watch-an-inheritance-ruin-a-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-165 Sandi Thu, 09 Jul 2009 00:34:24 +0000 http://www.climbingout.net/?p=417#comment-165 Great job! It feels so very rewarding when someone takes the 'hook' and comes back asking for more. When Dave has his $10 book & Deluxe Envelope system sale, I'll load up (3 or 4 of each) and then when someone asked me how we did it or I 'dangle the hook', I offer them book or CD and a Deluxe Envelope system. It doesn't always happen quickly, but so very gratifying when they come back for more. God Bless Great job! It feels so very rewarding when someone takes the ‘hook’ and comes back asking for more. When Dave has his $10 book & Deluxe Envelope system sale, I’ll load up (3 or 4 of each) and then when someone asked me how we did it or I ‘dangle the hook’, I offer them book or CD and a Deluxe Envelope system. It doesn’t always happen quickly, but so very gratifying when they come back for more. God Bless

]]> By: Northern Camping http://www.climbingout.net/2009/07/friendships-boundaries-do-i-have-to-sit-back-and-watch-an-inheritance-ruin-a-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-164 Northern Camping Wed, 08 Jul 2009 21:36:16 +0000 http://www.climbingout.net/?p=417#comment-164 Hey, this really is a great story! In fact, it is one of the better money stories I've read in a long time! I'm not a money blogger, but I have read and followed Dave Ramsey's method for the last 7 years or so and it does work. From what it sounds like, you have recommended what "Dave" would have said and in no time these people will be doing better than they deserve! LOL! Good luck in your own quest to become debt free!! Hey, this really is a great story! In fact, it is one of the better money stories I’ve read in a long time! I’m not a money blogger, but I have read and followed Dave Ramsey’s method for the last 7 years or so and it does work.

From what it sounds like, you have recommended what “Dave” would have said and in no time these people will be doing better than they deserve! LOL!

Good luck in your own quest to become debt free!!

]]> By: Martine http://www.climbingout.net/2009/07/friendships-boundaries-do-i-have-to-sit-back-and-watch-an-inheritance-ruin-a-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-163 Martine Tue, 07 Jul 2009 22:05:14 +0000 http://www.climbingout.net/?p=417#comment-163 Beautiful story. Thank you! You've encouraged me to NOT give up on offering TMMO encouragement to my friends... but to change my approach, and lace it with PRAYER. :) Beautiful story. Thank you! You’ve encouraged me to NOT give up on offering TMMO encouragement to my friends… but to change my approach, and lace it with PRAYER. :)

]]> By: Gramps http://www.climbingout.net/2009/07/friendships-boundaries-do-i-have-to-sit-back-and-watch-an-inheritance-ruin-a-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-162 Gramps Mon, 06 Jul 2009 22:58:26 +0000 http://www.climbingout.net/?p=417#comment-162 Tricky....but loving TRUE friendships can offer gentle advice. Send out that loving test balloon and then wait. Waiting can be so tricky. But, it's the key to keeping the friendship. How wonderful that you had an experience to offer, not just advice. This one turned out great for everyone involved....it won't always be that way....but your job is to be willing and loving. Isn't it wonderful to be truly helpful..... Tricky….but loving TRUE friendships can offer gentle advice. Send out that loving test balloon and then wait. Waiting can be so tricky. But, it’s the key to keeping the friendship. How wonderful that you had an experience to offer, not just advice. This one turned out great for everyone involved….it won’t always be that way….but your job is to be willing and loving. Isn’t it wonderful to be truly helpful…..

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